Restraining Order Sought Against Elijah Dukes
[editor's note, by R.J. Anderson]Credit to Patrick for the in depth write up, my name is on it only to preserve the comments.

Elijah Dukes is in trouble again. The St. Petersburg Times reports in this morning's editions that Elijah Dukes' estranged wife has sought a restraining order against her husband. The request for the order comes after what she says are threats against her life in numerous forms over the last several weeks. The matter has been referred to a court proceeding scheduled for May 30th, and Dukes could face criminal charges if the allegations are substantiated.
According to NiShea Gilbert, Dukes not only sent her a text message that included an image of a handgun, but he also left a voice mail message on her phone. The voice mail contained an individual, allegedly Dukes, saying "You dead, dawg" and "I ain't even bullshitting. Your kids, too." Dukes declined to make any comment of substance on the matter when approached, and the Rays remained non-committal and mostly silent on the matter, taking a wait and see approach.
This is not the first time Gilbert has sought a restraining order against Dukes. She sought one several weeks ago that was dismissed due to her absence at a scheduled court hearing on the matter. The latest request for a restraining order was filed last Thursday. A voice left on Gilbert's answering machine that she attributes to Dukes contains the word "dawg" five times, some variation of "fuck" three times, and the word "nigger" twice. It was stated in a mostly threatening manner, was extremely repetitive, and reads as follows :
Gilbert did not pursue criminal charges against Dukes, and the restraining order is the only legal action she has attempted to make with regards to the matter. Dukes has been in anger management and since being suspended for the final month of the 2006 season with Durham, he has been relatively well-behaved. A pot bust in a car this January is the only incident to be spoken of. Dukes and Gilbert have been married for almost 15 months; they have two children, both out of wedlock. Dukes has had three other children by three different women. Gilbert had filed for divorce once before in the marriage, and says that this time she will consummate it.
The main incident to be spoken of in this matter occurred at Gilbert's school, however. On April 30th, Dukes allegedly barged into Gilbert's classroom during her lunch period. He reportedly began threatening her and lunging at her desk. Gilbert and another staff member then proceeded to the front office of the school with another faculty member when Dukes left the room. The resident School Resource Officer calmed him down and escorted him off the campus.
This incident is obviously not the first to have plagued Dukes throughout his troubled career. He has had numerous arrests since his youth for assault and drug charges, among other things, and was transferred throughout numerous high schools for behavioral problems. If upheld, this restraining order would be the second one Gilbert has taken out against Dukes. One other restraining order was filed against the Rays outfielder by Carla Bryant in October 2005, both ordered Dukes to stay away from the complainant for one year. Dukes and Gilbert have had a long string of domestic disputes during their troubled relationship, which includes four summonses to his residence by police. He has been accused of, among other things, throwing a remote control at her, threatening her, throwing a glass candy bowl at her, hitting her with a soda can, and ripping a phone cord out of the wall as Gilbert attempted to call police. Conversely, Gilbert was arrested last year, accused of scratching her husband's back in another dispute. Dukes has received one related probation for a domestic quarrel back in 2005.
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DAWG!
by Jacob Larsen on May 23, 2007 12:31 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
Re: Dukes Legal Issues
by SeanDubbs on May 23, 2007 12:42 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
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by R.J. Anderson on May 23, 2007 12:44 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Patrick....
Next, I don't think that Dukes used that variation of the "N-Word". I don't think anyone not living in very rural southern towns uses the variation that you used.
by Jacob Larsen on May 23, 2007 1:32 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
Choice words
And Tampa is a rural southern town?
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 23, 2007 2:08 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: Choice words
by RaysNation on May 23, 2007 3:02 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: Choice words
there is definitely a difference between the two.
by god allah star on May 23, 2007 4:55 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Well, that
Rays Nation is right, the "er" version of the word is a horrible word that shouldn't be in anyone's vocabulary. Noone besides Richard Pryor and Samuel L. Jackson have used that word without getting "Michael Richards"-ed.
Why do we need a translation of what was said anyways, we all grew up watching "Wheel of Fortune".
by Jacob Larsen on May 23, 2007 5:17 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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by RaysNation on May 23, 2007 1:36 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
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by Ryan on May 23, 2007 1:36 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
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by R.J. Anderson on May 23, 2007 1:37 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Brett Myers
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 23, 2007 2:09 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: Brett Myers
And I guess this means Rocco isn't getting traded, unless Upton is really going to convert to CF.
by RayFanNY on May 23, 2007 8:19 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: Brett Myers
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 23, 2007 11:13 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: Restraining Order Sought Against Elijah Dukes
"And for all of you that have comments to say. Only my kids and myself know what we have been through. And I am happy he has moved on. Only thing he can do for me is take care of his kids. And I am a very truthful person."
She got some heat from a couple of posters on there and after reading her comments in the article something just doesn't strike me right about her either. No person deserves to go through what she is accusing Elijah of doing, but with his short fuse and her knowing better than anyone else how to push his buttons she probably could have avoided this entirely.
I'm by no means saying it's right, but with Elijah she may have fueled the fire that led to this and is now using it to her advantage. She may be telling the truth about what happened, but with a few different things that she may have conveniently omitted.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that we shouldn't throw Dukes to the wolves because we don't know the whole story.
by SeanDubbs on May 23, 2007 1:53 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
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by R.J. Anderson on May 23, 2007 1:56 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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Sorry, that just sounds too similar to the "she was asking for it" rape defense.
As for the situation, no I don't know anything. If Dukes committed these acts, and they are listed truthfully, he needs to be gone. I grant you that there could be omissions and some of it may not be truthful at all, but that is for the system to decide.
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 23, 2007 2:12 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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I know what the consequences of my posts on this subject will bring from you, but I could have avoided them if I would have just let it alone because at the end of the day it just really isn't that important anyways.
While my posts are no where near as serious as domestic violence or rape, women do not always tell the truth in cases with high profile men or may have put themselves in a situation (stripping for the Duke Lacrosse team) to where their exaggerated story is believable in order to gain leverage for their own personal gain.
Now if she is being honest, then Dukes deserves to be thrown in jail for a long time but I will remain skeptical until he's proven guilty.
by SeanDubbs on May 23, 2007 2:40 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
I know that
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 23, 2007 4:17 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: I know that
A restraining order is only as good as the person you're trying to restrain. A piece of paper is nowhere near as effective as steel bars and brick walls. This is why I said that if he did indeed do what she alleges, then he deserves to go to jail. But if she's not willing to do the right thing then she has no right to complain to anyone about something he does in the future, because nobody really knows to what extremes Elijah is capable of doing and she's gambling with the lives of her family and that makes her wrong.
by SeanDubbs on May 23, 2007 5:48 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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by Top Gun Numba 1 on May 23, 2007 5:57 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Patrick's so right
And I applaud her for talking to the media. She went to court, she's called the police, and yea, now she's going to the papers. Instead of just letting this go and letting a public figure fool us all into buying his t-shirts, she's showing us what we have here in centerfield. Instead of fighting this on her own, she's made the Devil Rays and MLB and all of us fans, demand he stop.
by JWallace on May 23, 2007 6:18 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: Patrick's so right
Why didn't she go to the police about the death threat though? Surely that's a criminal offense, and one I would want the authorities to handle in an extremely quick manner. They would certainly respond given all of the past run ins Dukes has had with the law.
by Top Gun Numba 1 on May 23, 2007 10:16 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: Patrick's so right
by das411 on May 24, 2007 4:05 AM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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Its one of a woman's biggest fears to be attacked/threatened like that. I really hope that the Rays do something about this. It doesn't have to be cutting him necessarily, but maybe anger management or something.
by Katie on May 23, 2007 3:38 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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by RATW on May 23, 2007 2:27 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
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The incident at the school should disturb everyone. There's no question it happened. It's in the police report. It's not just her word against his. The phone message is him. This guy has no idea how to behave. He sure as heck shouldn't be representing this baseball team, or this region.
I don't get people here cautioning others about not jumping on Dukes and instead are questioning the woman. The man had to be escorted off of school property by the police. Hey kids, forget having Kaz come to your class, Elijah's on his way, and he's coming to kill your teacher. Nice promotion in the making.
This guys talent has given him so many second chances and yet he behaves like this? It's time this organization make a big statement, one that goes beyond the need for a power bat in the line up.
by JWallace on May 23, 2007 6:00 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
Taking it out on Channel 8
by joedobr on May 23, 2007 6:53 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Looks like I will have to watch Ch. 8 at 11
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 23, 2007 7:17 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Meh
by R.J. Anderson on May 23, 2007 7:34 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: Meh
THESE "NATURAL ATHLETES" ARE A MENACE. WE NEED A TEAM MADE UP OF 3 HARRIS' 3 WIGGYS AND 3 ROCCOS
Pitching will be Josh Hamilton
by Top Gun Numba 1 on May 23, 2007 10:13 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: Meh
by R.J. Anderson on May 23, 2007 10:28 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
They aren't really the offenders
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 23, 2007 11:18 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: They aren't really the offenders
by joedobr on May 23, 2007 11:24 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: Meh
by Top Gun Numba 1 on May 23, 2007 11:21 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Ooh
"The Rays are about as bad on the field as they are off it".
This is going to be good. 
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 23, 2007 11:23 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
The segment is hilariously preceded by
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 23, 2007 11:25 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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by joedobr on May 23, 2007 11:24 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
Yes
I seem to remember the Tribune/Ch. 8 being lest "aghast" when the Bucs signed Darrell Russell as well as when Michael Pittman went through his legal troubles. Clearly no conflict of interest affecting their editorial judgement.
Quite frankly hold Dukes in a similar regard, but I don't appreciate Peterson presenting his slanted piece as journalism, nor do I appreciate the cracks at the team and, for some reason, Delmon Young.
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 23, 2007 11:34 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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by joedobr on May 23, 2007 11:29 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
Oh they did
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 23, 2007 11:30 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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by joedobr on May 23, 2007 11:34 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
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by R.J. Anderson on May 24, 2007 1:26 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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And for those of you idiots out there thinking the wife is just making these things up for leverage in the divorce. Think about this. If Dukes is cut and jailed he is worth much less to her than if she had just kept her mouth shut and let him keep collecting those fat paychecks from the Devil Rays. DiShea stood to gain much more by this not becoming public. This man is unstable and needs intensive psychiatric help to deal with his anger and violence issues before he hurts or kills someone.
by sgk0802 on May 24, 2007 10:10 AM EDT reply actions 0 recs
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"His mother says he went to the school April 30 after discovering NiShea Dukes cleaned out his bank account"
"NiShea Dukes, who has two children with Elijah, has asked for $28,000 a month in alimony and child support, according to court records. Dukes' pay averages about $29,230 a month"
The more you learn...
by R.J. Anderson on May 24, 2007 3:01 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
There are legal ways to get out of that
And once again "requested $28,000", that can be dealt with.
Listen, I never for a moment thought that this women was clean and had nothing to hide. I'm not that naive. However the actions Dukes took are unacceptable, especially so with his past. If anything, this new evidence adds credence to Dukes have sent the text message and having left the voice mail, because he now has motive.
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 24, 2007 8:00 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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Let's say he went to Best Buy to purchase a new HDTV with the extra money he's now making with his major league contract. He tries to put it on his debit card after bragging about him being a DevilRay and being "Elijah Dukes" and his card gets declined. He goes to his bank to find out what happened and sees all the money is gone. The question is, if this was a situation I proposed two months ago what would have expected Elijah to do given his anger issues?
by SeanDubbs on May 25, 2007 1:42 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Let's get one thing straight
From the Tampa Tribune:
NiShea Dukes disputed that story.
"I'm not going to feed into that," she said in a text message to The Tampa Tribune. "How can I steal money when we [are] married with two kids? And on a joint account?"
It's the ballplayer's wife against his mother, I see no reason that we should lead any more credence to the mother than we do Gilbert. Perhaps even more trust should be placed with Gilbert because she is right, you don't just withdraw $30,000 from a joint account.
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 25, 2007 4:09 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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The amount of money he is paying is not relevant, shelling out bucks doesn't make you a good father or a good person. He threatened to kill not only NiShea, but the kids too, his own kids. All the money in the world can't cover for that.
by sgk0802 on May 24, 2007 3:39 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
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She's not such a clean, good person herself apparently, and obviously money is playing a role for her more so than some would have you believe.
Dukes shouldn't have said those things, but if they were in a heat of the moment thing after finding out she took all his money I can excuse saying somethings, other than the 'your kids too' since they aer his kids.
Oh and you're right, shame on Elijah for having a joint account, with his wife, what a dumbass for trusting his wife with their money.
by R.J. Anderson on May 24, 2007 3:47 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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Wow.
by JWallace on May 24, 2007 7:24 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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by R.J. Anderson on May 24, 2007 7:48 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
He didn't threaten to kill her on campus?
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 24, 2007 8:02 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
They were in the heat of the moment?
Sending the gun in a text message was another.
The threatening voice mail was the third.
The heat of three moments.
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 24, 2007 8:01 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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And yes, maybe if this is a regular person with no history of violence you might forgive the words said in the heat of the moment. But Dukes is not a regular person, he has a long history of violence which stretches back to when he was very young. He has shown an inability to control his temper and a willingness to act against anyone, including a woman, if he feels wronged. Dukes is nothing more than a bully and a punk and needs to be forced into intensive counseling before he winds up in prison and DiShea and the kids wind up on a slab.
There is no excuse, people have been making excuses for Dukes for years, moving him from one high school to the next for disciplinary issues just so he could graduate and avoid detention, the numerous people talked out of pressing assault charges until he finally got a 30 day slap on the wrist in Durham, the number of people connected to the Rays who have "unofficially" encouraged DiShea not to go public so his carreer wouldn't be damaged. It is time for people to stop making excuses for this punk and make him face the full extent of consequences for his actions. And the first consequence should be that he shouldn't be allowed to put on a baaseball uniform again until this is resolved and he gets the mental help he needs.
by sgk0802 on May 24, 2007 4:02 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
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by R.J. Anderson on May 24, 2007 4:21 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
He married the woman
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 24, 2007 7:57 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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Anderson, why don't you and the rest of the pathetic Dukes apologists spend half as much time investigating and getting your facts right as you do defending this thug. The shame of it is that if he was batting .201 and a utility player, most of you morons defending him wouldn't have thought twice about seeing him cut. You people are the reason why athletes today walk around with the feeling the rules don't apply to them. They know that no matter what, as long as they are good, people will always try to defend them. What's worse is the way you idiots take their side and then try to deny you are doing it when you get called on it. Dukes is obviously stupid, but at least he's honest about it, what he does is out there for everyone to see. You people hover around the edges claiming there are "two sides" and insinuating that NiShea is just as at fault or that she is somehow manipulating this to extort money, you are pathetic and dishonest. You are the kind of people that make it possible for abusive husbands to stay out of jail and sometimes kill their estranged wives. And then you'll shake your heads with everyone else and wonder how it could have happened. You defenders of this punk Dukes are the reason NiShea went public, so that no matter what, the information is out there now and the likelyhood of Dukes being able to harm her is much less with this much publicity.
by sgk0802 on May 25, 2007 3:27 PM EDT reply actions 0 recs
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The money she is asking for is nearly 100% of Dukes monthly salary which she would not be able to get if he was in jail. As a teacher she can make enough money to support both herself and her two children if Elijah is in jail and unable to pay support and alimony. She obviously feels that living in fear for her and her kids' lives is compensated by $28,000 per month. That's just flat out BS.
In defense of R.J. you took his post out of context and he was referring to the most recent incident not last years. Jake, Patrick, and RJ could pretty much write a day by day time-line on the team on everyone from the peanut vendors to Stu himself over the past five years.
by SeanDubbs on May 25, 2007 4:09 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Again
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 25, 2007 4:12 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: Again
by SeanDubbs on May 25, 2007 4:28 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 25, 2007 5:04 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Re: AGAIN!!!!!!!!!!
by SeanDubbs on May 25, 2007 5:15 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
It's a "joint account" for a reason
Secondly, joint accounts are just that; joint. They usually require some sort of protection against a withdrawal like this, such as the consent of both parties.
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 25, 2007 7:26 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
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by RATW on May 25, 2007 4:15 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Agreed
by Patrick L. Kennedy on May 25, 2007 4:19 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
However...
by SeanDubbs on May 25, 2007 4:31 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs
Obviously
by R.J. Anderson on May 27, 2007 2:56 PM EDT up reply actions 0 recs

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